THE MAN THAT WAS MY GRANDFATHER
GUKA |
By
Charity Kuria
He
was the calmest person I ever meet. Never once did I see him angry or moody. Instead
he had this beautiful smile on his dark face whenever he saw someone
approaching. Serene defined him perfectly. His handshake ever firm he would enquire about
my welfare with genuine concern. He really cared about my education.
When
I came to understand things, my grandfather was a clinical officer and owned a
clinic right outside the homestead. People referred him to as ‘Doctor’ but to
us his grandchildren he was simply guka
and he seemed to love it. I believe he
loved me as much as I loved him. Guka was my favourite person because never
once did he raise his voice at me or heard him do it to anyone else nor did he
beat me up unlike my grandmother and parents who are guilty of all the above.
Guka
used to buy me presents. I remember once, he bought me a facemask. It had many
colours and I really felt nice. I am told of stories of how when little I would
accompany him to a hotel where he would buy me maandazi. Back home my cousins would be waiting for my arrival with
the anticipation of eating my maandazi
but I was too little to comprehend what was going on.
In
the evenings every day, we his grandchildren would sing him baby songs and he
in turn would treat us to sodas to our grandmother’s dismay who would rather
not have had us there. She took pleasure in chasing us away during the day and
we would take advantage of dusk when guka would be home. He loved nyamachoma and beer. I remember
collecting bottle caps of White Cap, Tusker, Guinness and Summit. In his coat
pockets there would be several sachets of Bond 7s.
In
the living room at the corner sat a lonely seat that carried his many hats
after being washed. We would try them all out and he never seemed to mind. In
fact when drunk he would pull a hat off his head and place it on my head. The
hat being overly big he would look at me and break into a happy laughter.
I
remember one evening at his house having come home from a wedding where I had
been a flower girl. I had worn a little pretty pink Cinderella dress with matching white shoes. As usual guka was drunk. There were guests with him at his
lobby. In my excitement, I took to wheeling
on my heels and my dress would follow suit forming this big umbrella-like
movement that seemed to amuse him and his equally drunk guests. The laughter
called grandma from the kitchen who tried grabbing at me but smartly waltzed out of her reach by going further into the room. Guka would say “Again!” and
I would ballet again and again enjoying every single moment.
He
owned an agro-vet shop and behind that, there was the clinic. Some few blocks
away from the shop was his pub which he had christened ‘Solidarity’ and
to which he consumed half the alcohol that was sold. While playing outside,
patients would come to the clinic and call for “watoto wadaktari, wapi daktari?” If he wasn’t at the shop then
definitely he would be at the Solidarity.
One
kid would hop away to call guka from
wherever he was to come and attend to his patient(s). We took delight in making
the trips to the pub. You see, it had a butchery within and that meant two
things. We would get muturas and soda for
free all in one breath! You can imagine making numerous trips to call him. While
he was gone, we would guard his beer jealously and the results were awesome.
Always!
One
day while in college, dad bought me a small digital camera. In my excitement I
took only two photos of him. He was seated on an arm chair specifically his, in
the living room enjoying a cold coca-cola drink listening to his small radio. I
requested for a photo and in honour, took off his cap to have his picture
taken. He looked radiant. That was the best day I’ve ever had with him. The moment was bliss.
Now,
seated here with a sad-happy smile looking at this small picture of his in my
wallet I can’t help but miss the old man and the good old days. Happy
anniversary guka, till we meet again!
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